YOUR FULL SELF IS WELCOME HERE
Sex & Relationships Coaching for Folx of All Genders and Orientations
CONNECTION is RESISTANCE
BELONGING is a BIRTHRIGHT
PLEASURE is POSSIBLE
WHOLENESS is HAPPENING
- WHOLE SEX Guiding Principles
I don’t believe that something is wrong with you that needs to be fixed.
I believe you are already whole.
My personal journey with my body and my sexuality has been from shame and self-denial to celebration and self-awareness. And my personal journey with communication has been from feeling like I had no real sense of my own voice (especially sexually!) to getting stronger, day by day, at knowing and authentically conveying to other people who I am and what I need.
I have studied wholistic sexuality and trauma-informed communication for over a decade now, and I am passionate about paying forward what I have learned.
I see my work as a coach as supporting people in opening further to their own wholeness, whatever that means for each individual (sometimes it means that I act kind of like a personal trainer, sometimes I offer guided visualizations and/or somatic meditations, sometimes it means that I simply provide a soft/brave space for processing and exploring).
If everyone felt comfortable bringing their full selves to who they are sexually and integrating their sexuality into the fullness of who they are, now *that* is a world I would like to see!
I am passionate about this work, and about supporting you, because I know how much all of our healing and wholeness is connected. I believe that the more safe and free you are, the more safe and free I am. I believe that shaping a world where everyone is more sexually safe and free is a key part of shaping a world where everyone is more safe and free, in general. And I believe that many of the systems the overculture is built on are rooted in power over others. Those systems keep a stronghold on their power, in part, by disconnecting us from our bodies, from our breath, from the earth, and from each other. Therefore, connecting and reconnecting to our bodies, to our breath, to the earth, and to each other is one powerful part of shaping a world where everyone is more safe and free, and I am dedicated to showing up to this work alongside you!
Most of all, I would love to:
co-create soft brave space to share what can often feel scary to hold to the light
give you tools to hear yourself better in order to get more deeply in touch with your needs and desires
support you in strengthening, clarifying, and communicating those needs and desires to your partner(s)
walk with you in bringing your full self to who you are sexually, and more deeply integrating your sexuality with the fullness of who you are
consider your wider ecosystem of connection and support, so that you leave working with me abundantly equipped to continue this growth on your own and in community
Some of the other areas I can support you in are:
navigating the terrain of opening your relationship and/or deciding whether an open relationship is right for you
deepening your intimacy with and/or enlivening your desire for your long-term partner
deepening your love for your body and expanding your capacity for pleasure, solo and/or partnered
exploring gender expansiveness, coming more deeply Home to your gender identity
opening up to, exploring, navigating kink/BDSM/Tantra
When I work with couples (and beyond), I specialize in:
trauma-informed communication tools and conflict transformation
healthy foundations for new connections
kind and conscious separation, honoring the connection you share(d), moving on with grace
I offer talk-based coaching for individuals and couples via Zoom, and I offer writing prompts and suggested physical explorations for between our sessions.
Coaching with me is not a substitute for therapy, but it does pair well with it.
I believe in longterm growth, not quick fixes, And I’ve found that some of the deepest work happens after some trust is built.
Thus, I ask for a commitment of 3 sessions within 3 weeks up front, after which we can check in to assess what is needed from there (common ways of moving forward together from there include: working together monthly or weekly in an ongoing way, or deciding on an arc of 3-10 more sessions to focus on something specific)
I also encourage you to connect with my group coaching offerings and workshops, which are designed for financial accessibility as well as for the specific depth and power and joy that can only happen when healing/learning within community.
If you’d like to explore the possibility of working together,
Please respond to the inquiry invitation at the button below,
And I will respond as soon as I can (usually within a week).
Please also read about my Roots and Lineages.
Testimonials from Past and Current Clients:
“Orion’s profound empathy and extensive knowledge about sex, dating, love, and relationships in all forms and dynamics make each minute feel valuable as they share their extensive wisdom and unlock your own, one gentle node at a time. ”
“My time with Orion has been truly transformative for my partners and me, in and out of the bedroom!”
“Orion helped us get out of our rut, appreciate each other more, reignite our sexual energies, and most importantly get back in touch with our own independence and senses of self.”
“I have, as everyone does, an extremely complicated relationship to my body and to vulnerably, fully and intimately sharing my body with another human. Working with Orion was like shining a light into hidden corners of my mind and, voila, so much to see! They gave me a simple exercise to do a few times a week, and a lot to think about. My next sexual experience was the most intense, most wonderful, most true I had ever had in my entire life.”
“I have tried various meditation (guided and otherwise) over the years and nothing provided me the sense of profound connection with my body and senses than the ones Orion guided me through.”
“I am now more direct, open, authentic and honest in my non-monogamous relationship than I have ever been in a monogamous one.”
“Orion gave me tools that helped truly transform how my husband and I communicate. ”
“With Orion’s guidance, support, and gentle approach I’ve learned to see myself as whole. I came to appreciate parts of me that I saw as shameful or unwanted. I understood that in order to show up for others I needed to show up for myself first”
“Orion’s coaching was amazing: they helped me analyze problems I had been turning over in my mind for years with fresh insight and new perspectives”
“I have never felt safer and the sex has never been hotter.”